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When you are a little stronger than the other party, they will definitely be jealous of you; When you are much stronger than the other party, they will admire you. If you want others to help you, you must continuously strengthen yourself and increase your value. ​​​

No one is perfect; focus more on the strengths. If you only want to find perfect friends, then you will have no friends. Wealthy people are basically ruthless; People of etiquette often lack loyalty; Those who value emotions are basically the vulnerable group. ​​​

It's better to develop the habit of exploring the world alone as early as possible. You're always waiting—waiting for the right companion to appear, waiting for friends to be free, waiting for a holiday when everyone can get together, waiting for good weather. But there are always obstacles blocking the way, and that perfect moment never arrives. Go after what you want yourself, live the life you want immediately; the feeling of waiting is not good at all. ​​​

There are two types of people you should never have deep conversations with. The first type is those who provide services to you: clerks, service staff, repair technicians, subordinates, etc. Be polite to them, but avoid intimate chats, and never confide your personal matters or reveal your own details. The second type is those who hold a higher status than you: leaders, clients, elders, superiors. There is a gap in social circles and differing stances; speaking less is a form of self-protection. There's no need to force conversations or try to ingratiate yourself. ​​​

Try not to get angry with children. They never intend to upset you; they just live at a different pace than you. Your world is filled with responsibilities, plans, and endless deadlines; their world consists only of the present wind, flowers by the roadside, and countless curiosities. Often, you are eager to see results; but they are still experiencing growth. So, don't hold a child to adult standards, and don't measure a flower blooming in spring by the harvest scale of autumn.

Shameless and fearless, overcome all mental illnesses. Anxiety is because you want to control too much, Depression is because you want to succeed too much, Compulsion is because you want perfection too much, Hypochondria is because you want immortality too much, Social anxiety is because you want acceptance too much. ​​​

In today's society, having fewer friends is more of a blessing. Because in this lawless era, people's hearts have turned away. Doctors hope you get sick, lawyers hope you have lawsuits, friends hope you don't live well, colleagues hope you can't close deals. In the past, people were simple and honest; more friends meant more paths. Now, having more friends means more karmic burdens.

I heard that a person can go from having nothing to a million in assets It only takes a few years But there is one prerequisite He can't have a job Can't have a stable job ​​​

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Social etiquette is not a derogatory term, for example: Visiting sick relatives, giving money directly Those who know how to show weakness are all smart people You can take some losses, but don't suffer in silence Don't easily tell others about your past Good at playing dumb, actually clearer in mind than anyone Don't meddle in others' business, don't lose temper easily People with overly sweet mouths, try not to get too close Those who hurt you the most are often the ones you trust the most In the workplace, don't reveal your true workload Nod more, speak less… ​​​